I still have a relationship with him although we dont see each other very often. It has been 13 years since then, and I still have those thoughts occasionally. I thought about going even further with him (he didn't have sex with me that night) and I wondered if he thought about me sexually.
I fantasized about that night and thought about wanting him to do it again. I became extremely sexually active, I started doing drugs and all the other things you go through after being molested (I feel like everyone pretty much goes through a similar downward spiral) BUT I didnt tell anyone for about a year and after that I just wanted my dad's approval again. I moved back to my mom's just a few weeks later. He inched his hand down, down, down, and the further down he went, the more I wanted it. I hadn't ever felt that before, he was my fist sexual experience. I was shocked, scared, frozen, and turned on. When my dad molested me, I was sleeping in his bed (it was just my dad and I that lived together and my room was too hot). I refused and felt really weird, I KNEW that was not normal, but honestly all the other stuff made me think I had a "cool" open minded dad. The massages would get more sensual and we would look at his collection of Playboy magazines together, he asked if I wanted to start masturbating with sex toys (I hadn't even started masturbating with my hand yet!), and he asked me to show him my nipples. Then things started going in a very inappropriate direction. I loved all of that! I loved my dad so much, we were best buds. He would give me massages, we would wrestle, he was extremely affectionate, he would tell me how beautiful I was etc. He "buttered" me up for at least a year prior to the actual incident. Posts: 2 Joined: Mon 8:12 am Local time: Sat 11:50 pm Blog: View Blog (0) I don't really want advice.I just need people who can relate to me. I feel stained, scarred, disgusting, dirty and unpure. I've been going to therapy for 5 years now and have learned a lot about myself, but I still feel guilty and gross. I'm 20 years old now, and the only men that have touched me is my childhood abuser and a much older man that I got drunk with and let him cop a good feel of my boobs. I don't have sex life or relationships at all. And yet, I feel as if it was my fault and I am the one who is guilty. I feel like he didn't do anything wrong because I enjoyed it.
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